I usually tried to end up being open-minded regarding interacting with new people, and so I don’t operate the other method when my date all of a sudden announced he had been a Scientologist. What ensued had been certainly my personal
most memorable times actually
, although it surely remaining my personal mind rotating. Here is what occurred.

1. 
   Every little thing started out so normally.
   
   We might met in a coffee shop in that sort of «meet lovely» way many dream about. The informal dialogue was in fact really fascinating, and I must say he had been very pleasant whenever that conversation converted into flirtation. In addition hadn’t been on a romantic date for a while during the time, and so I failed to really wait as he questioned me personally down. The go out by itself ended up being rather normal as well. In the end, we were just
   meeting for lunch
   .
2. 
   Yeah, I was amazed regarding Scientology thing.
   
   We just got all of our meals at bistro if the topic of faith emerged. The guy 1st questioned the thing I thought in and I freely admitted that I have been brought up Catholic but at this time considered myself much more agnostic than anything. His response? «Oh. Well, I’m a Scientologist. Will you be acquainted with the Church?» Gotta appreciate just how relaxed he had been, but no, I experienced no idea that has been coming.
3. 
   A non-Scientologist online dating a Scientologist is obviously pretty uncommon.
   
   In accordance with my day (and later confirmed by my personal post-date evening net searches), it is very unheard of for a Scientologist up to now some one beyond the church. Along with Scientology becoming those types of
   fundamentalist opinion programs
   where in actuality the theology may be the answer to everything in daily life, additional cause for this is certainly fairly simple. Scientologists merely fork out a lot of their private time in the church/engaging in church programs. That «meet lovable» we had inside cafe? He’d simply come from a session in church. And in which ended up being he before the big date? In the church without a doubt!
4. 
   The big date sorts of turned into about Scientology.
   
   While I happened to be inclined to say «OK!» and proceed, my personal go out felt very thinking about what my personal thoughts on their religion happened to be. The facts ended up being that i truly failed to would you like to make sure he understands my personal precise thoughts on Scientology whenever I insulted him, but I additionally failed to wish lie… thus I affected with myself personally and told him that, like most men and women, I’d heard lots of different things about Scientology, several of which might or might not be true. That became a mistake since the rest of our very own amount of time in that restaurant based on him trying to A) discover precisely what unfavorable circumstances I’d heard and B) convince me personally that Scientology was merely FANTASTIC!
5. 
   He had beenn’t the first Scientologist I’d actually came across.
   
   Although this had been my personal very first (and simply) big date actually ever with a Scientologist, the truth was actually that I’d recognized one before. It was in fact a buddy of my own in college, though she’d long been fairly quiet regarding the topic. Subsequently emerged one summer in which she launched she ended up being making school to go work for the Church and none of us have you ever heard from her once more. Actually her Facebook profile was actually erased shortly thereafter. Sometimes In my opinion about this lady and expect that she actually is okay.
6. 
   I was enthusiastic about hearing everything he had to state, but only because I learn religions as a hobby.
   
   I Am
   perhaps not spiritual myself
   but i am completely fascinated with different belief methods. For many years today, i have learned various religions within my spare time to the point that I can let you know the theology of all the major people following some. But rather of informing my go out that I already understood everything about classes, OT levels, engrams, bridges, the ocean Org, Xenu, Tom Cruise, etc., I stayed hushed and listened. Offer everybody the opportunity to discuss their unique section of the story, correct?
7. 
   Howevern’t really respond to my questions.
   
   Much as i desired to listen to him talk about his very own viewpoint on his opinions, he had been extremely elusive each time I inquired particular questions relating to it. Including, at some point I inquired how much it are priced at, typically, for a person to begin in Scientology. His reaction? «its so amusing you may well ask that because you really cannot place an amount on it.» Subsequently, we inquired what would happen if the guy or one of his true family previously kept the Church. «You do have an excellent creative imagination!» the guy mentioned, before fast modifying the subject.
8. 
   Turns out he’dn’t held it’s place in extended.
   
   Like many Scientologists, my time had joined because members of their family members did, but it ended up that they’d been involved for only over five years, basically pretty darn small when compared to many people inside the faith. He had been insistent that Scientology had altered all their physical lives when it comes down to much better but also for some explanation wouldn’t truly enter details about their moms and dads or siblings beyond tips like how old these were and where these people were residing.
9. 
   He had been a very great, articulate guy. But of course he had been!
   
   For folks who have no idea, Scientologists understand through their chapel programs tips talk much better with folks. Thus, quite a few have become positioned and well-spoken whenever around others, and that I imagine times are not any exception to this rule. Much as I happened to be aggravated by my personal time’s vague answers about their faith, I couldn’t help but appreciate ways he spoke and transported himself.
10. 
    No, he don’t you will need to generate me personally (or at least he was discreet about any of it).
    
    I kept waiting for him to state something like, «you will want to arrive see on your own why Scientology stones. Here’s a pamphlet!» but we recognized the point that the guy never did. The guy positively depicted it in a positive light, and at some point the guy performed tell me that he believed I’d reap the benefits of it. Still, he never pushed us to go go to the Scientology center and I also appreciated that. Possibly he hoped I would offer without any help to go.
11. 
    I was thinking it good for both of us if we did not carry on circumstances.
    
    Really don’t be sorry for my Scientologist go out anyway, but We realized we had beenn’t gonna exercise. We politely tell him this at the end of the night therefore we hugged and parted ways. I believe the guy understood that it was best move as well. We never ever watched him again.